I have decided, entries will be updated every Wednesday. Some times Tuesday. So if you go to my blog on Wednesday and see two entries, one from the day before, then I updated Tuesday. Also, on Fridays if I get questions on advice or something of the sort, I will answer them. If I have the email of the person who has asked the question, I will answer in the e-mail as well.
My first real entry is about the so-called “lonely cafeteria kid”, well that’s what I sometimes call them. Or never called them. Well, what I mean by “lonely cafeteria kid” is the kids who are alone and sits down in the cafeteria eating lunch by themselves, the ones who get no friends, the ones where some kids pretend they want to be their friend when they just want to cheer them up. Example:
Kristie: Hey Lonely Billy (billy is the lonely cafeteria kid of course.)
Billy: h-..hi.
[Kristie giggles]
Kristie: Okay.
Okay, I am a little of those “lonely caferia kids”, but actually, I think I have a solution to solve this as this may have solved this for me. Okay, so, you are a “lonely cafeteria kid”, right? You are always sad, you may be short or a little different from others, but not too different to be mentally disabled. If you are, then i’m not sure if this can help you because I have had little, or maybe a negitive amount of experience with them. But, I may have an entry someday. Anywho, if you think it is too late, wait until next year to do this, if not, do this. It may sound a little common for people to say, and you may say, “I’ve looked everywhere for advice on this and I found the same answer. This is one of them.” Just listen to me because I’ve extended it quite a bit.
Smile when you need to. Not all the time, unless you want people to stare at you and think you’ve had some work done. Unless you are always happy.
When someone talks to you, answer. Try to practice each time on your “hellos” so you won’t sound like you have a high pitched voice, and you’re scared saying, “H-h-hi? Oh gosh.”
Once you make a friend, make friends with their friends, and so on. You may have to work your way up slowly. But it’s worth it. Feeling friendship. How you will begin to make friends? By simply trying to talk to someone you were paired in in Science, Social Studies, whatever class. If you don’t have that, just try to talk to someone you don’t know who goes to your school. Example, you see someone outside skipping rope, although you may not skip rope this is an example, you ask them if you can join or, “Why are you playing like that” or something. Don’t be aggressive, though. Have your first impression a good first impression, so people won’t think that you are always mean and that you are suicidal, or some thing.
I hope this has helped. If you have any questions, email and I would be happy to help. You may have to copy my email because it is long and hard to remember. If not, you can comment this blog entry and I will answer your questions on Friday.
